be picky. don’t settle. don’t lower your standards. don’t. settle.
you’ll get called a bitch but at least you won’t be stuck in some horrid heteronormative nightmare with a deeply average boring man who can’t even fuck you right.
Be kind, to yourself & others, even when it’s difficult.
Improve your situation.
And say thank you.
Apologize when necessary.
Make insightful judgments.
Try something new.